Ingatku Dalam Doamu - Stings

teringat plak kisah nakal zaman2 sekolah dulu bila dengar lagu ni... masa tu ada konsert atas bumbung kuantan parade tahun 1998.. aku ni beriya2 la pergi dgn kakak angkat aku kat mas... selok gila.. first time tgk konsert hahaha.. masa tu kakak angkat aku tu check in hotel kt benteng utk aku.... first time gak aku dok hotel.. aduh kenangan semua tu...

What Love Is

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.  

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.   Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all.   A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said Love all

Depending on the context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship.  The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But love is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.

In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it. 

Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars.   Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect. 

Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.

Cinta Dalam Hati - Ungu (lyric)

really love this song....

malam di kuantan

11.30 pm

aku kuar la bandar tadi sebab nk cari makanan kucing aku yg dh habis,... aku lupa plak ada jom heboh kt kuantan, so jalan pun jem la.... dalam pada jem tu, ada plak org mana tah selok2 cilok keta aku..  siap langgar side mirror aku.. nk je aku kuar lempang muka org tu... kalu keta aku kemik ke apa, mmg haruslah aku kuar terajang je org tu...

ingat nk g kedai india kt kuil hindu tu, tp awal plak dia tutup.. jdi g la cri kedai lain.. ingat nk g yes tp jalan plak jem.. so aku g jela kedai yg dekat tempat bapok2 selalu lepak kt area kuantan plaza... nk turun dr keta rasa takut dan was2 sgt sebab tgk org asing je berlambak kt situ... dgn budak2 pompuan melayu yg mcm keruntuhan akhlak.... aku masuk jugaklah sebab nk beli makanan kucing aku.. tgk2 dok pilih makanan kucing, ada 2 org budak melayu lelaki selamba berok je beli arak.. tkde langsung rasa segan dan bersalah aku pandang dia... tokey kedai cina tu pandang je aku agaknya memahami riak muka aku kot... dia tya aku takut ke g kdai ni.. aku jawab selamba la mmg takut.... sbb ramai org asing n melayu tk sedar diri...

tp org2 melayu kita susah sikit nk tegur... kalau kita tegur kang ada yg menjawab kubur masing2... esok2 mati bior diorg uruskan sendiri jenazah diorg.. kalaulah jenazah awk tu boleh bergolek masuk sendiri dlm kubur bolehlah jawab gitu kan...

kenangan silam....

assalamualaikum...

setiap dari kita mesti pernah rasa apa itu cinta kan... pernah rasa terluka dan kecewa.. kadangkala terbias kenangan lalu... mengimbau kenangan lalu tu adatlah kan... kadang2 ada yg manis yg pahit... tp semua beri pengajaran kepada kita... jangan jadikan kekecewaan dulu sebagai penghalang kebahagiaan kita sekarang.... 

poppy mercury benarkah ini semalam

benarkah ini wajah semalam
yang penuh rindu dendam
aduh sayang cinta suciku
ketika itu padamu bagaikan debu...

kini kenapa datang semula
dengan derai air mata
tidakkah dulu kau yang berkata
diriku bukan yang kau cinta.........

haruskah ku memaafkan
kesalahan yang kau lakukan
sedangkan kesal perbuatanmu
masih ku rasakan

ku tak mahu berulang
kurauan cintamu
tak tertang lagiku betapa sakitnya
ku tahu siapa engkau
lahir batinmu cintamu berunggun apikan keraguan
dari terus makan hati
yang mungkin hingga ke mati
lebih baik saja ku sendiri begini
cukup hanya sekali
ku merasakan...
cukuplah hanya sekali.......

kesan sebuah perceraian....

salam..
kita semua mesti tk mahu kan sebuah ikatan perkahwinan yg kita bina hancur di tengah jalan... ikatan yg dibina atas dasar cinta berakhir dengan sebuah perceraian... ia memberikan kesan yg amt dalam padi diri sendiri dan lebih2 lagi pada anak2.... tapi kita sebgai manusia hanya mampu merancang.. yg menentukan semuanya adalah Allah Taala....

penceraian adalah suatu mimpi ngeri bagi kehidupan pasangan suami isteri. Penceraian itu walaupun pada awalnya dianggap sebagai cara terakhir dalam menyelesaikan masalah, namun ia akan meninggalkan kesan dalam keruntuhan rumah tangga. Antaranya kesan keruntuhan rumah-tangga terhadap anak-anak . Antara yang terpenting, kurang kasih sayang terhadap anak-anak kerana kasih yang diberi oleh ibu atau bapa sahaja tidak sama dengan kasih dari kedua-duanya. Apatah lagi jika setelah bercerai anak-anak diserah kepada keluarga di kampung atau keluarga angkat untuk dipelihara, ini akan memberi kesan psikologi tambahan kepada anak-anak.

Kanak-kanak yang membesar dalam keadaan begini lebihterdedah kepada pengaruh keruntuhan moral. Dari segi pendidikan, mereka juga tidak mendapat pendidikan yang sempurna kerana perhatian yang diberikan kepada mereka adalah terbatas. Mereka juga akan merasa tersisih dari kanak-kanak lain kerana malu melihat keruntuhan keluarga dan ini akan memberi kesan kepada pergaulan harian mereka di dalam masyarakat.

Perasaan cemburu, marah dan pendendam lebih kuat menguasai mereka dari perasaan kasih sayang. Mereka akan meniti kehidupan yang terlalu mencabar berbanding dengan rakan-rakan mereka untuk berjaya di dalam kehidupan.